Blogs, a lot of people use them for different reasons; to vent, to bash, or to just plain type it out :) Personally, I'm new to all of this so lets give it a go. You know that phrase "life sucks"? yeah, people say it at points in their lives when life really does... well suck! and you know what, it does. Life sucks. Too many a time have we all tried, tried, and tried some more to live life to the fullest, in the best way possible, and not make mistakes. Then, something goes wrong and we show signs of being human, we cuss  we curse the universe for turning against us, and we want to do nothing but give up. And sometimes, that seems like the only thing to do to survive. Personally, I agree. However, I don't totally agree with the phase "life sucks", like seriously, hasn't anyone stopped, and looked at their whole life and thought, because life sucks, they never had a happy moment, never smiled, never achieved anything, never had a dream? I bet you thought of a moment just now huh ;)? Truth is, there is always something to live for. Even if you don't know it yet, a precious reason does or will exist in life. It will hit ya like a ton of bricks. And that's a wonderful thing. Life is all about being spontaneous. Being spontaneous can be a very fun way to live, even if you have a type A personality where your not supposed to be in any way spontaneous, every moment must be planned, must be predicted, and must be totally thought through before it is done. That is an admirable way to be, but honestly, that is also one of the top reasons why life sucks. What would life be like if you couldn't like stop and smell the daisies (people usually say roses but I'm being spontaneous :) SURPRISE!). Some of the best moments in life come from surprises. and that's an important thing to remember. I don't know. I guess rambling is usually supposed to make a person feel better, and so far, its working. So next time you get the urge to say "Life Sucks" or "FML" or any other form of a sentence or acranim that means your hating life at the moment, just remember that that is not what life is all about. If you've never been spontaneous, give it a go, safely, and just see what happens. I mean, maybe life won't suck as much. Give it a try, what have you got to lose? Even when life is hard and seems like its not working in your favor, The best thing to do is to just smile and move forward, for tomorrow is another day (my little Gone With The Wind reference, HA!. So Don't Forget, Smile, be spontaneous, and keep on going, no matter what :)      --girl M.I.A